You know how to talk about everything, except what you actually want in bed.
Pillow Talk is a one-hour workshop designed specifically for sapphic and trans individuals. In 60 minutes you'll learn how to ask for what you want during sex, give feedback in the moment, and receive it without shutting down.
Pillow Talk- $27
Without awkwardness, without hurt, and without having to figure it out alone.
Who this is for...
The Freezers
You freeze when your partner asks what you want, even when you love them and trust them.
The Overthinkers
You want to communicate more during sex but every conversation about it ends in overthinking.
The Preformers
You perform enjoyment you're not fully feeling because you don't know how to redirect in the moment.
The "I-Just-Don't-Have-The-Words"ers
You KNOW what you like but you don't know how to articulate it.
What's inside?
In 60 minutes you'll learn...
1. How to identify what you actually want- even when your body is still figuring itself out. Including the Pleasure Vocabulary Method that I teach every client on day one.
2. How to ask in the moment without killing the mood. You'll learn the phrases that sound natural and can make sound like *you* and not scripted therapy talk.
3. How to give feedback that brings your partner closer instead of making them defensive. You'll learn the nervous system technique that will change everything for you.
4. How to receive feedback without shutting down or spiraling. Including how to calm yourself with facts and not assumptions.
Every week you avoid this conversation is another week of faking enjoyment instead of asking for
what you actually want.
Lying awake wondering if your partner knows you're not fully present.
Watching the gap between what you're experiencing and what you want get wider.
You don't need to keep hoping it'll magically get better.
You just need the language of how to do it.
Pillow Talk- $27
Imagine knowing exactly what to say when something isn't working.
Not afterward in a debrief, but right in the moment, in a way that actually brings you closer.
I'm Madeline. I'm a sexologist under the American Board of Sexology. I work almost exclusively with sapphic, trans, and trans-adjacent individuals and couples.
Pillow Talk isn't generic intimacy advice. It's built specifically for bodies and dynamics that mainstream sex education has never addressed. Everything is grounded in science and the real conversations I have with clients every week.
Hear From My Clients
"Madeline has created conversations for my husband and I that I never even thought of having. I feel empowered and well equipped to have conversations about sex and I feel more fulfilled now in my 50s than I did in my 20s."
Janna- age 56
"I started working with Madeline when my partner came out as trans. We had an amazing partnership but I wanted to make sure I was honoring their identity. Long story short- I wish we came to Madeline earlier in our relationship. I didn't realize how routine our intimacy was. She helped us discover sex and intimacy again in our new roles. We feel safe to explore and change it up and my partner feels euphoric in the bedroom."
Sammy- age 34
"I cried tears of joy and felt immediate relief when Madeline taught me about pleasure based sex vs performance based sex. For YEARS I was trying to figure out the missing piece and why sex just felt so... "eh". Madeline put everything into perspective in just our first session together. Everything just clicked."
Ash- age 31